I found my purpose - now what?

It seems that in every relationship I have, I end up being the "taskmaster" or organizer. This is true of friendships, working relationships, and romantic relationships. I don't know if I attract chronically disorganized people, or if I merely perceive nearly everyone else as such, but I find myself thinking "this could be done so much more efficiently," and then I proceed to do it that way. 95% of the time, no one argues with me. I suppose they're grateful not to have the responsibility. Plus, I think most people prefer to be told what to do as long as it's not obviously contrary to their own best interests.

It's not about being in control (at least, not always).